Please help. What are the warning signs of being/becoming a pedophile? Very serious.?

When you see an attractive woman/girl you look. When you find out shes underage you quickly realize she is off limits. A pediphile will not think she is off limits. Look pretty is pretty! It's how you deal with it. We all have strange thoughts! It's how you act with them. You don't act on these thoughts! 12 year olds can look 18 nowadays. I don't agree with them dressing the way they do. but a child is a child and regardless of how they look or act they are off limits. I think your just worrying about yourself right now. Relax! Get some antidepressants from a doctor. Ask for help!! Get counseling if you are depressed and have lots of anxiety. Its an awful way to live!! Sorry you are having such a rough time!